When your emotions are written off with an eye roll and a tut of “must be hormones” it definitely won’t help the situation. While this stereotype can feel patronizing, it’s also important to remember that there is some truth between our moods being impacted by our changing levels of hormones.
Understanding the reality of this can actually be empowering. When we’re aware of what our hormones are doing, we may be better placed to think before we speak, and take some time to reflect. For example, if your period is a day away and you feel really angry about something, stopping to think about the fact that your period is due, can actually help you decide if the emotion you are experiencing is legitimate, or perhaps fueled more in that moment by your hormones. If it’s the former, by all means carry on – we’ve got your back! But, if you find yourself thinking, hey, I think this may be hormones, maybe take a second to recalibrate. Think on the issue. It’s not easy to do, but it can be useful in helping you to feel more in control when your body isn’t.
There are lots of hormones that are connected to our moods. The big ones you’ve probably heard about are serotonin, dopamine and oxytocin. While these are well worth a mention, it’s also important to recognize how our sex hormones can impact our moods as well. For example, did you know:
- Estrogen regulates mood-boosting chemicals in the brain and that when our estrogen is low, we can feel the effects and feel low too.
- Progesterone is a hormone that people experience differently. While some find high progesterone levels to be mood boosting, others find progesterone can cause PMS type symptoms.
- Testosterone is vital to our mood, it boosts brainpower, lifts our mood, helps us sleep and fires up our libido.
From the time we start having periods, most of us will notice our mood changes over the course of the month. This is because of the rise and fall of estrogen and progesterone. Hormonal surges at puberty can trigger heightened emotions, outbursts, a lack of energy and mood swings. For postpartum moms, there can be a dip in mood because of low estrogen levels. The combination of this hormone shift, with the challenge of being a new mom, can cause major depressive symptoms. And for women at perimenopause and menopause, the effects of falling hormone levels can cause depression, anxiety and even brain fog.
Although hormone related mood symptoms can be difficult to manage, most people are able to stay on top of them. For others however, hormonal shifts can be more challenging to control and end up having a big impact on their day to day lives.
So how can you tell when hormonal mood shifts during puberty, pregnancy, postpartum or menopause may have become more of a problem?
Moreover, what can you do to minimize the impact your hormones are having and safeguard your mental health when your hormones feel less predictable?